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Let's get the bit out of the way that will make most move straight on....I'm married.
I'm looking for an affair with one woman.....I'm not looking for loads of affairs, rather one woman to develop this relationship of a mildly esoteric nature. My Ideal Person: Probably between the ages of 38 and 60 but just a guide, not hard and fast. Not really fussed about body shape etc - its a personality thing that I'm interested in. That doesn't mean either confident or shy, just someone who will want me to submit and for whom I would like to do so I haven't had loads of partners over the years and just want to try new things, to experience the sorts of activities that both excite me and make me nervous! In particular if you enjoy bare bottom hand spanking please do get in touch. I'm nervous but interested in CBT too so if you're willing to start reasonably gently I'd love to hear from you

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Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Power
My perfect matchAssertive, funny, charming and loves spanking
Our first dateGetting to know each other

BDSM Preferences

I enjoyWhipping
My most pleasurable encounter wasStill to come I hope!

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Shoes, Belt, Tawse
Response:Laughing, Joking, Pleasurable Moans
Pain level:Heavy Marks